Why Reading to Your Child Every Day Matters Before Kindergarten
Updated: 5 days ago
By Tammy Christian, children’s book author and founder of TC Books
Preparing children for kindergarten does not have to begin with worksheets, flash cards, or formal lessons. It can begin on your lap, beside a toy basket, or under a favorite blanket, with a book you enjoy together.
Long before children recognize letters, they can enjoy your voice, explore pictures, and discover that stories are something worth paying attention to. These small moments offer opportunities to build language, connection, and curiosity.
Reading to children every day does not need to become another task you worry about getting right. A few happy minutes count. You can start with the child, the book, and the time you have.
Reading can begin earlier than you think
You do not have to wait until your baby understands a story to start sharing books. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends reading together from birth. Babies hear the rhythm and sounds of language while enjoying interaction with someone who cares for them. Learn more about sharing books with babies.
For a baby, reading might mean looking at one picture while you name what you see. For a toddler, it might mean pointing to a dog, making a barking sound, and immediately turning three pages.
That still counts as sharing a book.
Try sturdy board books, simple pictures, rhymes, and repeated phrases. Respond when your child points, smiles, or makes a sound. Those little exchanges make reading something you do together.
Books introduce new words and ideas
Everyday conversations give children plenty of chances to hear language. Books add words and experiences that may not come up while you are finding shoes or making lunch.
A story might introduce a “gigantic” pumpkin, a “cozy” burrow, or a character who feels “disappointed.” Pictures and conversation help connect those unfamiliar words to something meaningful.
Among the benefits of reading to toddlers is the opportunity to grow vocabulary through shared attention and talk. NAEYC highlights how discussing what happens in a book supports language learning. Explore NAEYC’s guidance on reading with infants and toddlers.
You do not need to explain every word. Choose one that catches your child’s interest:
“Gigantic means really big. What else have we seen that was gigantic?”
Then give them time to respond with words, gestures, or a delighted point toward the picture.
Children begin learning how stories work
At first, your child may enjoy recognizing familiar objects: a ball, a cat, a cup. As you keep sharing books, there are opportunities to notice characters, follow events, and remember what happened.
Reading to preschoolers can include simple invitations such as:
“Do you remember who lives in this house?”
“What do you think will happen next?”
“What happened at the beginning?”
These conversations introduce early literacy skills, including making predictions and understanding a story’s sequence. Children gradually discover that stories can have a beginning, a middle, and an end. See NAEYC’s early literacy learning examples.
Keep it playful. You are enjoying a story together, and your child does not need to answer every question. Sometimes your own observation, such as “I wonder where that kitten is going,” is enough to invite a conversation.
How reading supports kindergarten readiness
Kindergarten readiness includes much more than recognizing letters and numbers. Children also benefit from opportunities to listen, communicate, explore, ask questions, and talk about experiences.
Sharing books gives them a comfortable place to practice. A child might listen for a favorite phrase, ask why a character made a choice, or follow a simple direction such as “Turn the page and look for the butterfly.” The American Academy of Pediatrics describes shared reading as a way to help young children prepare to listen and learn at school. Read its guidance for ages two and three.
When choosing the best books for kindergarten readiness, look for books that invite participation:
Rhyming and repeating books that encourage children to join in.
Stories about everyday routines that open conversations about new experiences.
Books about feelings and friendship that offer situations to discuss.
Picture books with clear storylines that children can retell.
Books about favorite subjects that inspire curiosity and questions.
Useful books for preschoolers do not all need to focus on school. A story about a garden or a lost mitten can inspire thoughtful conversation, too.
Stories make room for big feelings
Young children experience frustration, excitement, worry, and disappointment, sometimes before they have words to explain them.
A story offers a gentle starting point. Talking about a character who feels left out may feel easier than discussing something that happened at daycare that morning.
You might ask, “How do you think she feels?” or “What could her friend do to help?”
NAEYC encourages families to discuss characters and story events as a way to support social and emotional learning. Books can create opportunities to consider other people’s experiences and possible solutions to problems. See NAEYC’s suggestions for building social and emotional skills at home.
You can also practice kindness beyond the page. After a story about helping, invite your child to think of one helpful thing you could do together.
Make daily reading fit your family
A reading habit is easier to keep when it fits naturally into your day. Bedtime works for some families. Others enjoy a book after breakfast, before a nap, or while waiting for an older sibling.
Start small and let enjoyment guide you:
Keep books within reach. A small basket near your usual sitting spot makes choosing one easy.
Let your child choose. Their favorite may become your most frequently read book.
Welcome repeat requests. Familiar stories give children chances to anticipate and join in.
Follow their attention. Pause to explore a picture or stop when they have had enough.
Use the library. You can discover new favorites without building an expensive collection.
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends keeping reading enjoyable, allowing children to choose books, and reading even when you have only a few minutes. Find more practical read-aloud tips.
Parents, grandparents, caregivers, preschool teachers, and daycare providers can all help make books a familiar part of a child’s world. If you miss a day, simply open a book together the next day.
Choose stories your child will enjoy
One of the best ways to encourage a love of reading is to choose stories that make children want to come back for another book.
As a children’s book author, I love creating stories that give families opportunities to read, laugh, talk, and spend time together.
Too Excited To Sleep! is a fun story families can enjoy together, especially when talking about excitement, bedtime, and those moments when it feels impossible to settle down.
For children getting ready for a new school experience, Eric the Colorful Cricket Starts Kindergarten can help open conversations about starting kindergarten, meeting new friends, and trying something new.
The most important thing is not choosing a “perfect” book. Choose stories your child enjoys and make reading together something they look forward to.
One small habit, many meaningful moments
Reading aloud to children offers something valuable right now: your attention, a shared experience, and a chance to enjoy discovering something together.
You do not need a perfect reading voice or a carefully planned lesson. You can make the animal sounds, laugh at the funny picture, and read that favorite page again.
Tonight, let your child choose a book. Settle in, open the book, and see where the conversation takes you. Long before the first day of kindergarten, those everyday moments can help make learning feel welcoming.
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